marrige …
Monday, March 3rd, 2008I got a huge shock last week … while i was enjoying my early dinner, my dad suddenly came and told me he had choose my future wife… of course I was shock and a bit disappointed … i didn’t say anything and continue finishing my dinner … suddenly the curry i ate taste sour …. after washing my hand in the kitchen i just walk slowly to my room and lie down on my bed thinking what the hell has got into my dad … knowing my dad, i knew he didn’t really meant what he say coz everytime he got this new ideas, he got excited and start talking about it ….
On the next day, me, mom and dad had lunch together again… in the middle of our lunch, he open THE issue again but this time he was calmer then yesterday … he told me that my sister and her boyfriend plan to get married around september this year … so since i’ll be finishing my study around that time so he plan to combine my wedding with hers … the problem is i don’t have a partner yet and so he told me he have 2 girls for me to choose … gosh what is this … 1960’s is it !!!! hahahahahahaah
Luckily dad understand me well .. so he didn’t force me to except .. he gave me the phone number of one of the girl … I decline his offer politely … the idea of getting marry is just not in my mind at the moment or atleast not anytime soon …
I talk to several close fren of mine about this … most of my guy fren laugh their troat out and as for my female fren.. some say i should go ahead and some say better don’t …
Do we marry a stranger … and then we learn to get to know our bride and hopefully we fall in love with her … Who among us are willing to take the risk ? Do we simply choose a women and get married ? I do realize that in Islam, we believe that love comes after marrige … What I’m trying to convey here is my preferrance, if I were to marry someone, I would prefer to marry someone I knew … Marrige is a life commitment … it involve two hearts and on a bigger picture, 2 family … Going back to the early phase of a relationship, where two people meet and fall in love … they fall in love because they have found someone meaningful to their life .. I belive when we fall for a girl and confess our love… we confess to a special person that we plan to marry … Hehehe .. perhaps as corny as it may sound … I actually belive in what I say … Finding the right person may take sometime … But I would rather live a single life waiting … PAtient is a virtue …
