fahmy, sorry again for dropping by and point out opinion that you might not really expect… well, this situation where parents or even relatives promoting significant other at certain age we’re at is common in these era. it is some what way they think, is things that they could do to help us… thinking that we might have insufficient linkage of friends… knowing that we keep on hanging with certain chain of friends. i also face the same problem here where by family members are so eager to make me settle. it is not the issue of settling down itself but finding a perfect match to settle down is not that simple. maybe some people think that we can learn to accept anyone that came into our life to live with but for me such things does not exist. it is good to get to know but if you think that it will not work at the first place, why even try? trying will end up heart-ache… the worst part is that, if you feel like that person does not suit you… how to explain that you’re not interested? any idea?